I would definitely suggest a forgiveness spell, and a spell to cut off ties, to be able to finally let go. I would also 100% suggest that you write these spells yourself, because it’ll be way more personal and powerful that way.

Find things that remind you of that person, and cleanse them of their negative energies. This can be done with incense, holy (blessed) water, a simple chant, all three, or none — whatever works for you.

Then I would meditate, and just think upon why you’ve decided you don’t need this person in your life anymore. Take a long time for this one. It could be a very complicated process.

Then, start a final spell just to make it “for sure”. Just to tell yourself that yes, this person is really no longer going to trouble you. It could be as simple as saying a few words and cutting a string, or it could be as intricate as a full on ritual with tools and herbs and candles and the whole shebang.

Just remember that forgiveness is divine. I would make this about you, and try not to put any blame or punishment on the person who wronged you. I have no idea what your situation is, though, so I can’t say.

I hope this helps. And I really hope things get better.

Blessed Be
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